Movie recommendation: Udaan

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Udaan is a 2010 hindi movie directed by Vikramaditya Motwane, written in collaboration with Anurag Kashyap. 

I watched Udaan recently, having never even heard about it until the awards season began. After noticing that it was bagging awards left, right and center, my curiosity got the better of me and I has to see what it was all about. 

***Plot***

The film opens with Rohan (Rajat Barmecha), a rebellious teenager and his rambunctious friends getting into another one of their many shenanigans in their boarding school leading to their expulsion. Rohan considers himself to be an orphan having lost his mother at a young age and being deprived of a relationship with his estranged father. He now faces a serious predicament as he realizes that he has to go back and live with the man whose face he has almost forgotten. 

The main story unfolds following a terse and strained first encounter with his father Bhairav Singh (Ronit Roy) after a span of several years. Bhairav Singh is a deeply flawed human being with pathological control issues frequently manifesting as verbal and physical abuse. After his wife's death, he casts aside his only son at a boarding school to remarry, only to become a widower again with a young son Arjun (Aayan Boradia) who solely bears the brunt of his tyranny. 

Rohan is stunned to discover that he has a six-year old half brother and tries to ignore him most of the time. Arjun is a serious and timid child who obediently does what he is told to by his father and brother without question. The lack of family dynamic is powerfully depicted. Bhairav Singh insists his sons address him as 'Sir' and blindly obey his irrational decisions and rules irrespective of whether they like it or not. He constantly bullies, criticizes and taunts them, dismisses anything they have to say and if displeased, punishes them in beastly ways. His sons in turn, resent him but find themselves incapable of retaliating. Rohan vents out his frustration by miserably failing his exams and sneaking out at night to visit seedy bars while Arjun acts out at school which frequently lands him in trouble with his teachers and principal. In spite of all Bhairav's shortcomings though, we do get to see some fleeting glimpses of his softer side where it seems like he wants the best for his sons and feels remorse when he has wronged them. You don't relate to him even for a second though as he returns to his hateful self almost instantly. Even his affable younger brother, Jimmy (Ram Kapoor) who seems to be the only person he is very close to is not spared from his sour disposition.

The story takes a dramatic turn when Bhairav, in a fit of rage, punishes Arjun and inadvertently lands him in the hospital. Such a serious incident makes Rohan step up to the role of a big brother and assume the role of protector. A bond of love and trust slowly begins to develop between the two half-brothers. Rohan, who dreams of being a writer but is forced to attend engineering college in order to join his father's business, starts spending time sharing his beautifully written stories and poems with Arjun. Rohan slowly begins to realize that he can break free if he really wants to but just has to muster enough courage. After a series of unpleasant incidents with his father, it is the last straw for Rohan. The ending of the movie is just wonderful and I wouldn't want to elaborate on it. You have to watch it.

My thoughts...

Udaan is a small budget movie with no star cast (most of the actors are from television or newcomers), no exotic locales and no trite song and dance routine. In other words, it is anything but your typical Bollywood fare. And that my friends is exactly what makes the movie work. The lack of stereotypes and clichés makes it refreshingly different from all the mediocre run of the mill movies that are churned out every year. The simple and realistic approach that the filmmakers have taken in showcasing the story of an adolescent boy who attempts to break free of all the shackles preventing him from living the life he had always dreamed of is incredibly relatable and heart-warming.

The performances are top notch. Ronit Roy is menacing as Bhairav Singh and deserves all the accolades coming his way. Rajat Barmecha as Rohan is the epitome of teenage angst and does complete justice to his character. Ram Kapoor is convincing as the nice uncle. But all said and done, the highlight of this movie is Aayan Boradia as the tormented Arjun. The child actor displays a complex range of emotions much beyond his years. He is innocent, timid, endearing, frustrated, angry, scared and even a bit cheeky. That he has such an angelic face makes him all the more adorable. Check him out in the shower scene holding his little bow and arrow (aka the real Arjun) - it is cuteness personified.

That wraps up my review of Udaan. Go watch it if you want to see some refreshingly different and meaningful Hindi cinema. I hope you like it as much as I did 😊

My rating for this movie is

Cheers,

Megha

International Women's Day: Saluting the spirit of womanhood

"A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water".

                                                                                                                                         - Eleanor Roosevelt

This is one of my favorite quotes on women. For every instance that a woman is ridiculed for being physically weak, impractical, irrational or emotional, there will emerge ten others who will silence all the naysayers by demonstrating extraordinary strength and resilience in the face of great adversity. I read somewhere that when the question was asked as to why there is no man's day, the instant reply was, "isn't everyday man's day???" I thought to myself how true that statement is. This is still overwhelmingly a man's world and I don't know if a day will come in the future when that skewed equation will change. 

I consider myself to be a liberal feminist. I believe in equal political, economic and social rights and equal opportunities for women. After all, women are the the source of life, the heart and soul of every family and the emotional backbone of any relationship. It isn't easy being a woman - multitasking, tending to everyone else's needs and juggling different roles and responsibilities throughout a lifetime of niggling prejudice and judgment is something our gender can never escape from. In spite of that, I can honestly say that I am proud to be a woman and I wouldn't have it any other way.

The bonds that a woman forges during her life, be it the one that a daughter shares with her parents, a mother shares with her child, a grandmother shares with her grandchildren, a sister shares with her siblings is something a man simply cannot compete with. Feminine energy needs to be celebrated because it channels more depth, connection and nurturing into every relationship that it touches. It is true to a great extent that a woman thinks with her heart rather than her head.....but is that such a bad thing?? Maybe that's just the way the creator intended it to be. In today's world, we desperately need less ego and more humility. We need less raging ambition and more empathy. We need less aggression and competition while forging more authenticity and connection. Women can bring that to the table and hence our voices must be not only heard but valued. 

Recipe of the month: Goli Baje (Mangalore Bajji)

Conversation 1

Me: "Hey, what snack should I make when we have guests over for dinner this weekend?"

Hubby: "Goli baje"

Conversation 2

Me: "It's one of those rainy evenings....wouldn't it be nice to munch on a fried snack with coffee? What would you like?"

Hubby:"Goli baje"

Conversation 3

Me: "I'm so excited that we're leaving to India in a few days. What dish are you most looking forward to eating at home?" 

Hubby: "Goli baje"

Conversation 4

Hubby: "Babe, you know what you haven't made in a long time?

"Goli baje!"

Me: ***rolls eyes***

Now that you've read these snippets of conversation between me and my hubby, no prizes for guessing what his favorite fried snack is 😄

Goli baje is popularly known as Mangalore bajji and it is something that is prepared regularly in my family. This is a really simple snack to make and you will find that the ingredients for it are something that are commonly found in every Indian household. So, in addition to being easy to make and delicious, there is the added bonus of not having to rush to the store during those fried food cravings.