Me: (Getting straight to the point while skipping all the greetings, social niceties and polite small talk)
Hey HT, I want to check out X Café. I've heard the X they serve is good.
Her: Okay
Me: When you free?
Her: Anytime over the weekend
Me: Great. Let's catch up this Sunday morning. Can?
Her: 👍👍
That's how simple it is and possibly the main reason why despite working together for barely two years back in 2011, we have remained good friends ever since. Apart from living in the same neighborhood, being former colleagues and sharing a common love for food, coffee, quaint desserts, food photography, travel and hazelnuts, now that she is married, we have more to jabber about.
I have a tendency to seek no-filter friendships quite similar to the relationship I share with my sister. The kind that creates a safe space for me to be my real and true self, even the waspish, self-absorbed, petty version of me that won't win any popularity contests. I believe that the friends who have stuck by me the longest, overlook my failings in favor of my better personality traits such loyalty, integrity, reliability and accept/love me for who I am.
Friendship is like any other relationship - it takes time and effort. If the feelings are mutual, the effort will be equal. I can honestly say that for the two of us, this has always felt organic. We have always been able to make time for each other despite work and family commitments and I can only hope that it stays the same. She is my first choice for an accomplice when I get an invitation to review a particular restaurant or when I voluntarily want to check out any food establishment. Over the years, I’ve probably influenced her a little bit which is noticeable when her response to food evaluation is a much more thoughtful and articulate description rather than a customary nonchalant shrug accompanied by a “not bad” 😂 She is a self-confessed glutton (much like me) and so when I'm with her, I never feel conscious on the amount of food I can tuck away!
Friendship is like any other relationship - it takes time and effort. If the feelings are mutual, the effort will be equal. I can honestly say that for the two of us, this has always felt organic. We have always been able to make time for each other despite work and family commitments and I can only hope that it stays the same. She is my first choice for an accomplice when I get an invitation to review a particular restaurant or when I voluntarily want to check out any food establishment. Over the years, I’ve probably influenced her a little bit which is noticeable when her response to food evaluation is a much more thoughtful and articulate description rather than a customary nonchalant shrug accompanied by a “not bad” 😂 She is a self-confessed glutton (much like me) and so when I'm with her, I never feel conscious on the amount of food I can tuck away!
She was the one who suggested Choupinette after I wanted to catch up and hear all the details of her recent registration of marriage. I'm not going to bore you with how much I love brunch (I've already highlighted that many many times on the blog). All I'll say is that I will never ever say no to a place serving all-day breakfast.
Choupinette has been around since 2002. It is a little piece of France in Singapore that you can go to for breakfast, brunch, lunch, coffee/tea, all-day dining.
The café is quite small (a hole-in-the-wall kinda deal) with a rustic homely décor yet popular and predictably crowded on weekends. Note that they don't accept reservations on weekends so you will get a seat if it is your lucky day.
As we made our way to the café at 10am on a bright and cheery Sunday, I noticed that the place was filled with a mix of both locals and expats, mostly families. We were fortunate that there were two tables left.
As we made our way to the café at 10am on a bright and cheery Sunday, I noticed that the place was filled with a mix of both locals and expats, mostly families. We were fortunate that there were two tables left.
Be sure to check out the baked goodies they have on display. They are really hard to ignore 😄
What struck me was even though the café was crowded, it wasn't noisy and we were able to relax and chatter the morning away.
I had heard that the eggs benny was good and so I had already decided what I was going to order. The menu at Choupinette is limited but they do have some well-loved breakfast items as well as all sorts of savoury and sweet baked goods on display that I mentioned earlier.